Thursday, May 27, 2010

THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM AT THE TOP

Yes! I believed that until now there is always room at the top if we will be ready for the opportunity to come. Always work hard on our self and be higher than our calling. The world will make a path to our door!

Below are few suggested guidelines that can help to bring you to the room at the top. I suggest that you try to follow the precepts daily and surely, you will not be disappointed!

1. Think for a change. Think for the innovation of your being. Do not waste your time for something which you think not worthy, not valuable and could not help to harness your will power to think and grow rich!

2. Read a good book. For these are the vitamins and nutrients for your mind and soul that can help to awaken your giant within.

3. Apply what you have learned from your reading. Remember knowledge will be became power if only you will apply them and put them in the right application.

4. Study the lives of highly successful people. Read their biographies, their writings and copy their formula of success and apply it to yourself. Surely, two to five years from now, you will be at the top of your dreams.

5. Be true to yourself. Always follow the dreams and desire of your heart. Remember, you are the architect of your destiny and you are the architect of your fate. Avoid looking back instead move forward and follow your calling.

6. Keep on moving. Remember this secret formula that can guide and help you to avoid to much disappointment, failures and headaches as you travel in the games of life: work slowly but surely.

7. Never give up. Remember all the greatest men in history were a product of courage and courage you know is born in the cradle of adversity! So hold on! Be strong! Don't ever give up! You can if you think you can! Remember that the only person who can stop you of what God intend you to become is you!

Finally remember my friend, that the best investment you can give to yourself is you! You can make a lot of money by investing in you than any other investment. Therefore always work hard on yourself and you will earn a fortune!

Remember,! THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM AT THE TOP

Good luck to your journey in life and God bless!

Leia Mais…

Monday, May 24, 2010

Chats

Hello,

Yes chat, online, we meet so many people online, and everybody with there unique identity and usernames. Well my job in the company is to be online, as I work for the IT company and so I am always there on all majoy IMs. Everyday I get atleast 4-5 request online to chat particularly on IM, but I prefer to talk with very very few, in case if i get tired, or just to keep my mind fresh , or just to do timepass. I will not deny that yes being online I have met good people.I will not say bad people, bcoz bad is our way how thinking about that person with whom you have initiate a  chat.

It is good thing , but tell you something honestly in that chat whom we meet , they start with so many probing question and they make so many predictions that for few seconds we feel what!!!!!!! they presume so many things about ourselves, that we forget that am I really like this person is telling, they presume as if they know from birth ins't.

And the general questions they ask hi , my name is this n yours, i work here n u,married or single... I mean name and occupation is fine .. but what is this married or single.. if i say unmarried , is he going to marry or going to search a groom for me. If i say married ... oh than they mostly stop the conversation there or at the most they ask how many children, what yr hubby do.. are stop it.. why cant there be some meaning full talk.

Mostly when the answer is single, they get so worried more than our parents trust me i have seen it, mostly people after talking for some time they just ask silly questions ... I mean give me break...Why the hell they have to know what I do for my needs, they make you feel they are available.. all bulshit...Please chat  there is nothing wrong but why the hell one has  to worry.... I understand needs are there, but every bodies needs  are different correct?
  







Leia Mais…

Saturday, May 22, 2010

outstanding customer service.

Bill Hogg presents his top ten tips for providing outstanding customer service.

If you want to be able to stand out from the crowd and offer truly great customer service instead of just empty promises, here are ten great tips that will help.

There are two ways to fix every problem. The immediate solution is to take care of the customer, leave him or her happy, and go on with your day.

However, there's a reason this problem happened. You need to consider how to prevent it from happening again. Your business will be more efficient and you'll have happier customers overall.

Treat your customers like human beings. That means treating them with dignity and not being annoyed at them for interrupting your day. This also means expecting them to act like responsible adults. Too many businesses believe that good customer service means bowing to the whims of every customer with a complaint. That solves the immediate problem of an angry customer, but sometimes it's not for the best. Know when there's a real problem that needs fixing and fix it well, but don't let people walk all over you.

Go beyond the minimum to make your customers love you. If there's a real problem, and you can do just a little more to make a customer's day, he or she is going to remember it. You'll get a lot more repeat business and word of mouth advertising if you over deliver.

Don't make excuses. If it's your fault, say so. Don't try to blame it on the customer, the circumstances, another vendor, or the position of the moon in the sky. It's amazing what a difference it can make if you just say "An error has been made, but I will make it right". Your customer will see you a lot differently if you don't make excuses.

Don't take it personally! This one's easy to forget because the customer is directing their frustration at you. However, the customer is angry about the situation, not angry at you, specifically. Taking things personally just introduces anger into the situation and makes it harder

to fix the problem.Listen to your customers. Don't assume you know what they want. They may have some good things to say, even if they're not experts.

Think about what you're promising. It's easy to get carried away and offer more than you can easily deliver. If your business is racing from one project to the next, you can't offer true quality of service. Don't let this happen. Always pay close attention to what you're promising, and don't let a customer talk you into the impossible.

Allow the customer to feel like a priority. Don't answer the phone while filling out a spreadsheet - you'll sound distracted. Spend the few minutes it takes to really pay attention. Your customers will know the difference and the results will be worth it.

Get to problems right away. No one wants to deal with something unpleasant, but if you let a complaint sit, it's not going to get any better on its own.

Leia Mais…

Thursday, May 20, 2010

self improvement article

Here are top 10 basic steps that can help you move your life to the next level. This self improvement article will assist you in breaking through your own glass ceiling to create the life you really want

1. GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO DREAM You probably had no problem dreaming as a kid. What happened to your ability to imagine and dream about what you want and who you want to be? When was the last time that you caught yourself daydreaming and appreciated it?

2. STOP LOOKING OUTSIDE YOURSELF FOR HAPPINESS Stop looking outside yourself for happiness. Look inside. Increase your self-awareness. Get curious about who you are at the core. Cultivate and nurture a relationship with yourself.

3. COVER THE BASICS Take the time to address your personal needs. How can you focus on thriving in your life if you are in survival mode? Set up that meeting with a financial advisor; get your space organized, clean up the details that are wasting your energy.

4. EMBRACE YOUR PAST AND MOVE ON Embrace your past and move on. Shift from "why it happened" to what I want to do about it now. Asking: “what" is not a very empowering question? Asking what or how I want to proceed can be much more powerful and produce forward movement.

5. REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE It is easy to feel overwhelmed with life. Seek support. Read more self improvement articles. They might help you figure about some things that are puzzling you.

6. REMEMBER TO BE GRATEFUL AND COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS What is working right in you life? Make a list. Set aside a bit of time everyday to acknowledge what or who you are grateful for. The more you practice gratitude, the more you attract into your life things to be grateful for.

7. COURT YOUR PASSION You still have your passions though it has been a while since you may have felt it flow. When are you the most alive and joyful in your life? Who do you most admire and what do they inspire in you?

8. TAKE ACTION AND TAKE RISKS Take action and take a risk. All the inspiration in the world is not enough to make you move your life to the next level. It takes inspired action to do that.

9. KEEP BREATHING You probably forget to take deep full breaths. We have all learned to constrict our breathing in response to stress. According to many self improvement articles, we not only need oxygen to stay alive, we need oxygen to give us energy and keep us healthy. Right now take 5 deep, full breaths.

10. DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF Call a friend, take a spa , take yourself to an art museum or schedule a whole day out in nature. Put on some great music and dance till you drop.

Leia Mais…

Thursday, May 13, 2010

Emotional Atyachar

Yup, emotional ataychar... We always give to ourselves in every step of our own life.

Hello,

Since I have written this one line which carries a lots of things in it, all my friends would like me write in details, i was thinking what to write in detail, as the line itself defines so many thing in our day to day life ins't it. Like i feel in every step of our life we give to ourselves, we always just think let me stay for my own self, but we fail so miserably.

Like if somebody is telling us i love you, we just start thinking him/her as our own world and when it leaves again we give ourselves emotional ataychar correct. And if one is getting married, his/he life just surrounds around him/her, but what when it fails even when we are giving our 100% again we play with our own feelings making our heart understand, and there is fight between heart and mind.. who wins the battle again it is though questions...but again it's same emotional atyachar to our own selves correct.  



Leia Mais…

Marriage

I am almost now 35, I have heard many many saying and various experience of all my married friends. Couples who are happy or sad always have one thing to say in common ---WHY WE GOT MARRIED/THANK GOD  YOU ARE LUCKY YOU ARE STILL SINGLE. Yes, being single is the best part always as I have seen now a days the definition of of marriage is almost changing. Somewhere i m really scared of it.

Leia Mais…

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

219,000 Cigarettes to Help Smokers Quit (4 photos)

219,000 Cigarettes to Help Smokers Quit (4 photos)

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Dil Kyun Yeh Mera-Kites Movie (Full Song)

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Zindagi (Kites) Full Song *KK* - HQ

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Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Prayers change things

They say that prayer changes things, but does it REALLY change anything? Oh yes! It really does! Does prayer change your present situation or sudden circumstances? No, not always, but it does change the way you look at those events. Does prayer change your financial future? No, not always, but it does change who you look to for meeting your daily Needs. Does prayer change shattered hearts or broken bodies? No, not always, but it will change your source of strength and comfort. Does prayer change your wants and desires? No, not always, but it will change your wants into what God desires! Does prayer change how you view the world? No, not always, but it will change whose eyes you see the world through. Does prayer change your regrets from the past? No, not always, but it will change your hopes for the future! Does prayer change the people around you? No, not always, but it will change you - the problem isn't always in others. Does prayer change your life in ways you can't explain? Oh, yes, always! And it will change you from the inside out! So does prayer REALLY change ANYTHING? Yes! It REALLY does change EVERYTHING!

Leia Mais…

Monday, March 15, 2010

How I felt today

Hey, Today i met one of my old friend after a long time. We both are together since a long time. She has seen many ups and down in her personal life. She is divorcee, having a daughter of 9 years.Today in general we are discussing about life and marriage , and suddenly she told about men who are there in her life. One who is just telling her that he will marry and she is just waiting for that day to come, but as usual you know the Hindu mentality how it will be if a boy or girl want to marry in lower caste or to the person who is also a having a child, so just the time is passing by in her life talking only on phone everyday. One other side there is one other friend of her, same caste ,working in good position , handsome looks with salary loves her very much, But the sad part is he is lame. Girl do not want to marry him just because she thinks he is handicapped. This suddenly gave me a stroke when I learned that she wants create a impression where if she walks people should admire them and not pity them. I was wondering not because what she told,because i myself is handicappe. After she left i was sharing this thought of her with one of my besty, and guess what was the reply. Yes marriage is something a status symbol, infact wife herself is a status symbol. what you all think about it?

Leia Mais…

Monday, March 1, 2010

Are we leaving our life for ourself

Hi,

This thought came today in my mind, and I was thinking are a giving ourselves enough time, are we spending money on our ourselves, mostly i think answer will be NO. Like we always carry so much responsibility on our shoulders that we just forget to give time to our ownself.We earn, we spend before the month ends the pockets is nil. We always think about our family and day to day expenses, but what about our own,each time we just think i want to get this of my family , i have to pay this and that, i have to pay my bills and what not ...

We always think about other, but not for us... I think we are not responsible for what people think about you.But we are responsible for what you give them to think about us.

Leia Mais…

Friday, February 26, 2010

Never quit

I have read story long time back, which is still making to walk strong and helping me to gain strength in my day day life.

One day I decided to quit.... I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality. ...

I wanted to quit my life.

I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.

"God", I said. "Can you give me one good reason not to quit?"

His answer surprised me...

"Look around", He said. "Do you see the fern and the bamboo?"

"Yes", I replied.

"When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them.

I gave them light. I gave them water.

The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor.

Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.

In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.

And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed.

But I did not quit on the bamboo".

He said. "In the third year, there was still nothing from the bamboo seed.

But I would not quit.

In the fourth year, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed.

I would not quit."

He said. "Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth.

Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant.

But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 Feet tall.

It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive.

I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle."

He said to me. "Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots. I Would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you. Don't compare yourself to others."

He said. "The bamboo had a different purpose than the Fern, yet, they both make the forest beautiful."

"Your time will come, "God said to me." You will rise high!"

"How high should I rise?" I asked.

"How high will the bamboo rise?" He asked in return.

"As high as it can?" I questioned.

"Yes." He said, "Give me glory by rising as high as you can."

I left the forest and brought back this story.

I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on you........

So we all are here to fight and take our life on the path which God has made for us without loosing hope and patience.

Leia Mais…

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Time is running by

Imagine there is a bank that credits your account each morning with Rs 86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day; allows you to keep no cash balance; every night deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do with such an account Draw out every penny, of course!!!

Every one of us has such a 'bank'. Its name is TIME. Every morning it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every night it writes off as lost whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose. It carries over no balance. It allows no overdraft.

Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the records of the day. If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours. There is no going back. There is no drawing against tomorrow. You must live in the present -on today's deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success!


The clock is running. Make the most of today!!!

Leia Mais…

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Hi, today i was not able to able to take a decision today and suddenly while surfing i came across this quote and believe me it worked so well----------when faced with two choices, simply toss a coin, it works not bcoz it settles the question for u, but bcoz in that brief moment when the coin is in the sir, you suddenly know what you are hoping for.

Today i have also realized one more thing in love there should not be jealousy, which really makes our life like killing our own feelings , emotions, inner happiness just because the person to whom we love does not like it, which is really wrong, for me love is giving a needed space, trust and believing that love will never go anywhere else it so well said by someone that -------- "Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy - in fact, they are almost incompatible; one emotion hardly leaves room for the other

Leia Mais…

Monday, February 22, 2010

hello welcome all blessed people

Hello World,

It good to be here in this world and being blessed.

Leia Mais…