Monday, March 15, 2010

How I felt today

Hey, Today i met one of my old friend after a long time. We both are together since a long time. She has seen many ups and down in her personal life. She is divorcee, having a daughter of 9 years.Today in general we are discussing about life and marriage , and suddenly she told about men who are there in her life. One who is just telling her that he will marry and she is just waiting for that day to come, but as usual you know the Hindu mentality how it will be if a boy or girl want to marry in lower caste or to the person who is also a having a child, so just the time is passing by in her life talking only on phone everyday. One other side there is one other friend of her, same caste ,working in good position , handsome looks with salary loves her very much, But the sad part is he is lame. Girl do not want to marry him just because she thinks he is handicapped. This suddenly gave me a stroke when I learned that she wants create a impression where if she walks people should admire them and not pity them. I was wondering not because what she told,because i myself is handicappe. After she left i was sharing this thought of her with one of my besty, and guess what was the reply. Yes marriage is something a status symbol, infact wife herself is a status symbol. what you all think about it?

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