Hi, today i was not able to able to take a decision today and suddenly while surfing i came across this quote and believe me it worked so well----------when faced with two choices, simply toss a coin, it works not bcoz it settles the question for u, but bcoz in that brief moment when the coin is in the sir, you suddenly know what you are hoping for.
Today i have also realized one more thing in love there should not be jealousy, which really makes our life like killing our own feelings , emotions, inner happiness just because the person to whom we love does not like it, which is really wrong, for me love is giving a needed space, trust and believing that love will never go anywhere else it so well said by someone that -------- "Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy - in fact, they are almost incompatible; one emotion hardly leaves room for the other
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
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Its really true that you have two ways out for any problem. Problem is your own creation and its solution is in your hands. If you settle down to list pros and cons of those two options with unbiased mind, you will get solution.
If you truly love someone then jealousy wont be there. I believe love is worshiping God. How devotional you are when you sing a prayer. how unbiased and neutral you are when you sing a prayer. Its same in love. Its natural and so cant be defined in words, cant be bound in boundaries.
"panchi nadiya pavan ke jhoke na koi sarhad inhe roke, sarhade insano ke liye hai socho, tumne aur maine kya paaya insaan hoke"
all the above referred in the first line knows the meaning of love, while the one alone referred in the second and last line dont know meaning of love and so suffering.
Its really true that you have two ways out for any problem. Problem is your own creation and its solution is in your hands. If you settle down to list pros and cons of those two options with unbiased mind, you will get solution.
If you truly love someone then jealousy wont be there. I believe love is worshiping God. How devotional you are when you sing a prayer. how unbiased and neutral you are when you sing a prayer. Its same in love. Its natural and so cant be defined in words, cant be bound in boundaries.
"panchi nadiya pavan ke jhoke na koi sarhad inhe roke, sarhade insano ke liye hai socho, tumne aur maine kya paaya insaan hoke"
all the above referred in the first line knows the meaning of love, while the one alone referred in the second and last line dont know meaning of love and so suffering.
no my dear.I do not agree. Loveneeds to belong. Belonging brings possessiveness and from it arises jealousy. Jealousy & love co-exist.Not 2 sides of a coin but as reflection of one to another.
But as love deepens and matures with feelings , understanding grows. as understanding grows , it brings compassion and compassion replaces jealousy. When compassion totally replaces jealousy, u achieve complete love. A Love Nirvana. A soul full of love , without body, that transcends time ,shape & all human barriers & borders.
By Chankya
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