Life's Lessons

Life's Lessons: I've learned....Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.


I've learned....It’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned....You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is being someone who can be loved; the rest is up to them.

I've learned....No matter how much I care; some people just don't care back.

I've learned....It takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned....Either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned....It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned....You can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned....You should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I've learned....You shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.

I've learned....You can do something in an instant something that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned....You should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned....You can keep going long after you can't.

I've learned....We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned....Regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned....Heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned....Money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned....My best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned....Sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned....Sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.



I've learned....True friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned....Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to do mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned....No matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned....It isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned....No matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned....Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned....Just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other.

And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned....We don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned....Even when I have pains; I don't have to be one.

I've learned....You shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned....Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something different.

I've learned....No matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned....Your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learned....Even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned....Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned....The people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon. Cherish and appreciate them now.

I've learned....Regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.

I've learned....It’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

I've learned....If someone says something unkind about me, I must live so that no one will believe it.

I've learned....You can make someone's day by simply sending them a little note.

I've learned....Life sometimes gives you a second chance.

I've learned....That the greater a people sense of guilt, the greater his or her needs to cast blame on others.

I've learned....No matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and

it will be better tomorrow.

I've learned....Making a "living" is not the same thing as making a "life".

I've learned....You shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back.

I've learned....If you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But, if you focus on your family, the needs of others, your work, meeting new people, and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you.



I've learned....Whenever I decide something with kindness, I usually make the right decision.

I've learned....Every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love human touches holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.

I've learned....That I still have a lot to learn.

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THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM AT THE TOP

Yes! I believed that until now there is always room at the top if we will be ready for the opportunity to come. Always work hard on our self and be higher than our calling. The world will make a path to our door!

Below are few suggested guidelines that can help to bring you to the room at the top. I suggest that you try to follow the precepts daily and surely, you will not be disappointed!

1. Think for a change. Think for the innovation of your being. Do not waste your time for something which you think not worthy, not valuable and could not help to harness your will power to think and grow rich!

2. Read a good book. For these are the vitamins and nutrients for your mind and soul that can help to awaken your giant within.

3. Apply what you have learned from your reading. Remember knowledge will be became power if only you will apply them and put them in the right application.

4. Study the lives of highly successful people. Read their biographies, their writings and copy their formula of success and apply it to yourself. Surely, two to five years from now, you will be at the top of your dreams.

5. Be true to yourself. Always follow the dreams and desire of your heart. Remember, you are the architect of your destiny and you are the architect of your fate. Avoid looking back instead move forward and follow your calling.

6. Keep on moving. Remember this secret formula that can guide and help you to avoid to much disappointment, failures and headaches as you travel in the games of life: work slowly but surely.

7. Never give up. Remember all the greatest men in history were a product of courage and courage you know is born in the cradle of adversity! So hold on! Be strong! Don't ever give up! You can if you think you can! Remember that the only person who can stop you of what God intend you to become is you!

Finally remember my friend, that the best investment you can give to yourself is you! You can make a lot of money by investing in you than any other investment. Therefore always work hard on yourself and you will earn a fortune!

Remember,! THERE IS ALWAYS ROOM AT THE TOP

Good luck to your journey in life and God bless!

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Chats

Hello,

Yes chat, online, we meet so many people online, and everybody with there unique identity and usernames. Well my job in the company is to be online, as I work for the IT company and so I am always there on all majoy IMs. Everyday I get atleast 4-5 request online to chat particularly on IM, but I prefer to talk with very very few, in case if i get tired, or just to keep my mind fresh , or just to do timepass. I will not deny that yes being online I have met good people.I will not say bad people, bcoz bad is our way how thinking about that person with whom you have initiate a  chat.

It is good thing , but tell you something honestly in that chat whom we meet , they start with so many probing question and they make so many predictions that for few seconds we feel what!!!!!!! they presume so many things about ourselves, that we forget that am I really like this person is telling, they presume as if they know from birth ins't.

And the general questions they ask hi , my name is this n yours, i work here n u,married or single... I mean name and occupation is fine .. but what is this married or single.. if i say unmarried , is he going to marry or going to search a groom for me. If i say married ... oh than they mostly stop the conversation there or at the most they ask how many children, what yr hubby do.. are stop it.. why cant there be some meaning full talk.

Mostly when the answer is single, they get so worried more than our parents trust me i have seen it, mostly people after talking for some time they just ask silly questions ... I mean give me break...Why the hell they have to know what I do for my needs, they make you feel they are available.. all bulshit...Please chat  there is nothing wrong but why the hell one has  to worry.... I understand needs are there, but every bodies needs  are different correct?
  

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outstanding customer service.

Bill Hogg presents his top ten tips for providing outstanding customer service.

If you want to be able to stand out from the crowd and offer truly great customer service instead of just empty promises, here are ten great tips that will help.

There are two ways to fix every problem. The immediate solution is to take care of the customer, leave him or her happy, and go on with your day.

However, there's a reason this problem happened. You need to consider how to prevent it from happening again. Your business will be more efficient and you'll have happier customers overall.

Treat your customers like human beings. That means treating them with dignity and not being annoyed at them for interrupting your day. This also means expecting them to act like responsible adults. Too many businesses believe that good customer service means bowing to the whims of every customer with a complaint. That solves the immediate problem of an angry customer, but sometimes it's not for the best. Know when there's a real problem that needs fixing and fix it well, but don't let people walk all over you.

Go beyond the minimum to make your customers love you. If there's a real problem, and you can do just a little more to make a customer's day, he or she is going to remember it. You'll get a lot more repeat business and word of mouth advertising if you over deliver.

Don't make excuses. If it's your fault, say so. Don't try to blame it on the customer, the circumstances, another vendor, or the position of the moon in the sky. It's amazing what a difference it can make if you just say "An error has been made, but I will make it right". Your customer will see you a lot differently if you don't make excuses.

Don't take it personally! This one's easy to forget because the customer is directing their frustration at you. However, the customer is angry about the situation, not angry at you, specifically. Taking things personally just introduces anger into the situation and makes it harder

to fix the problem.Listen to your customers. Don't assume you know what they want. They may have some good things to say, even if they're not experts.

Think about what you're promising. It's easy to get carried away and offer more than you can easily deliver. If your business is racing from one project to the next, you can't offer true quality of service. Don't let this happen. Always pay close attention to what you're promising, and don't let a customer talk you into the impossible.

Allow the customer to feel like a priority. Don't answer the phone while filling out a spreadsheet - you'll sound distracted. Spend the few minutes it takes to really pay attention. Your customers will know the difference and the results will be worth it.

Get to problems right away. No one wants to deal with something unpleasant, but if you let a complaint sit, it's not going to get any better on its own.

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self improvement article

Here are top 10 basic steps that can help you move your life to the next level. This self improvement article will assist you in breaking through your own glass ceiling to create the life you really want

1. GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO DREAM You probably had no problem dreaming as a kid. What happened to your ability to imagine and dream about what you want and who you want to be? When was the last time that you caught yourself daydreaming and appreciated it?

2. STOP LOOKING OUTSIDE YOURSELF FOR HAPPINESS Stop looking outside yourself for happiness. Look inside. Increase your self-awareness. Get curious about who you are at the core. Cultivate and nurture a relationship with yourself.

3. COVER THE BASICS Take the time to address your personal needs. How can you focus on thriving in your life if you are in survival mode? Set up that meeting with a financial advisor; get your space organized, clean up the details that are wasting your energy.

4. EMBRACE YOUR PAST AND MOVE ON Embrace your past and move on. Shift from "why it happened" to what I want to do about it now. Asking: “what" is not a very empowering question? Asking what or how I want to proceed can be much more powerful and produce forward movement.

5. REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE It is easy to feel overwhelmed with life. Seek support. Read more self improvement articles. They might help you figure about some things that are puzzling you.

6. REMEMBER TO BE GRATEFUL AND COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS What is working right in you life? Make a list. Set aside a bit of time everyday to acknowledge what or who you are grateful for. The more you practice gratitude, the more you attract into your life things to be grateful for.

7. COURT YOUR PASSION You still have your passions though it has been a while since you may have felt it flow. When are you the most alive and joyful in your life? Who do you most admire and what do they inspire in you?

8. TAKE ACTION AND TAKE RISKS Take action and take a risk. All the inspiration in the world is not enough to make you move your life to the next level. It takes inspired action to do that.

9. KEEP BREATHING You probably forget to take deep full breaths. We have all learned to constrict our breathing in response to stress. According to many self improvement articles, we not only need oxygen to stay alive, we need oxygen to give us energy and keep us healthy. Right now take 5 deep, full breaths.

10. DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF Call a friend, take a spa , take yourself to an art museum or schedule a whole day out in nature. Put on some great music and dance till you drop.

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Emotional Atyachar

Yup, emotional ataychar... We always give to ourselves in every step of our own life.

Hello,

Since I have written this one line which carries a lots of things in it, all my friends would like me write in details, i was thinking what to write in detail, as the line itself defines so many thing in our day to day life ins't it. Like i feel in every step of our life we give to ourselves, we always just think let me stay for my own self, but we fail so miserably.

Like if somebody is telling us i love you, we just start thinking him/her as our own world and when it leaves again we give ourselves emotional ataychar correct. And if one is getting married, his/he life just surrounds around him/her, but what when it fails even when we are giving our 100% again we play with our own feelings making our heart understand, and there is fight between heart and mind.. who wins the battle again it is though questions...but again it's same emotional atyachar to our own selves correct.  

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Marriage

I am almost now 35, I have heard many many saying and various experience of all my married friends. Couples who are happy or sad always have one thing to say in common ---WHY WE GOT MARRIED/THANK GOD  YOU ARE LUCKY YOU ARE STILL SINGLE. Yes, being single is the best part always as I have seen now a days the definition of of marriage is almost changing. Somewhere i m really scared of it.

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